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And if you can believe that, he can get away with anything. Crazy-making abuse has more to do with personality, which is a combination of nature and environment. Sounds a lot like gaslightingright? The goal is pretty much the same: to make you doubt your own perception of reality and to depend more on your abuser than on your own senses, judgment, and intuition. In crazy making relationships, the abuser keeps using these gaslighting tactics to make the abused feel small, stupid, incompetent, and crazy.
The point is to make you doubt yourself and feel less confident that you know anything worth knowing. Nothing good comes of trying to argue any point, even if you have proof to support your argument. Victims of crazy-making behavior learn to keep quiet rather than risk being made to feel stupid or crazy.
You talked to your boyfriend about buying a new couch, and you swore you agreed upon a particular model.
When you ask him to cancel the order and explain why he accuses you of changing your mind and insists you both agreed on the model he ordered. But after visiting the store and flirting with another woman — who expressed her preference for another couch — ultimately ordered that one, hoping to one day impress the other women with it. Your girlfriend is quick to criticize every decision you make and to belittle you for them until you change that decision to suit her. Every decision you make is fair game because it gives her an opportunity to sabotage your confidence and make you feel ashamed for having decided on something without conferring with her first.
If you buy a new outfit or something that makes you smile, he attacks you for being selfish and thoughtless, even if he spent more money on something for himself. She goes nuclear — accusing you of putting your career ahead of your relationship and shaming you for accepting the interview invitation.
Related: 22 s of an Unhealthy Relationship. But if you try to do what your abuser would do, the crazy maker will turn on you for whatever you did in their name. The lingering effects are damaged self-confidence, lower self-esteemand a compromised ability to trust others. Living with a crazy-making abuser makes it harder to believe in the existence of unconditional or selfless love. Reading the s of gaslighting, I have been told by a councillor that was happening tom.
I did not ask for this and some people would say kick to the kerb. All you want inside is normality. Telling you maybe decent but nobody wants you. I could not remember what happened last year and even years ago. It was like my brain ceased and it is dangerous. No one deserves such abuse and the hardest part is to prove it has happened. This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed. Share Pin Buffer 3.Crazy making behavior relationships
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