Questions about relationships and dating

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Robert Dunn and I sat down to tackle the most common dating questions people have asked us repeatedly. This article is part 1 of this discussion. We decided that getting both the male and female perspective would be helpful so you could get both as you go through your dating journey. We often have great conversations about dating and relationships and want to invite you into the discussion. Time is undefeated. A man who likes you versus a man purely interested in sex will show you the s early on.

What I have observed in men who care about you is that while they can be wildly attracted to you, if they want to invest the time in you, they can or will wait to become sexually intimate with you. For some men, they realize the quicker the physical act takes place, that sometimes this can dull their view, perspective, or interest in you. Also, there are other s. He asks you questions about who you are, what is important to you, and makes an effort to do things that will bring the two of you closer.

And I agree with Robert that time will always tell you exactly who someone is and their true intentions. Yes, there are exceptions to this rule. This question is a rub for most couples. And your decision to engage in a relationship with your ex has to be carefully measured based on the relationship dynamics that work for the two of you.

I do think you can be friend with an ex. It really depends on the relationship. From my perspective, if they are an ex, there is a reason you electively choose to end a relationship with them. And through that relationship, you may have realized that they are more compatible for you as a friend versus a boyfriend, girlfriend, etc.

Questions about relationships and dating

Now I realize that some will argue that you need to ax them out. But, from what I have found, this is generally the case when the person in your life may have their own insecurities or existing feelings for someone in which they were in a relationship. If the two of you trust and respect one another and are transparent with your relationships and friendships with an ex or not, this will strengthen your relationship because in openly having a dialogue about these relationships you are showing your partner they are more important to you than an ex.

If someone gives you ultimatums about who you can and cannot communicate with and it makes you uncomfortable, you have to weigh out if this is the type of relationship you want to have with someone else. And my clients have been split on their belief of continued communication with an ex, but ultimately you have to do what works best for the two of you. Ultimately no one can tell you what is right for you when it comes to this area, but there are practical realities we have to be aware of at the same time.

Or having sex with him too soon will cause him not to respect you. The girls I slept with early on but also continued to want to explore more with were the ones that were comfortable with themselves. Sex is tricky, but not for the reasons that you think it is. Unfortunately, it gets used in a lot of the wrong ways versus the right ways which can complicate a relationship early on.

First of all, vet them out. Get to know them.

Questions about relationships and dating

Figure out if you want something for the short, mid, or long-term. If you are looking for a random hookup, be safe and use protective measures. If you are looking for something that you want to figure out can be a longer-term relationship, take your time. If a man or woman is interested, you waiting to be intimate with them is not going to make them leave you.

I get that there is a lot of pressure to move fast, but if you are interested in someone, you should actually do the opposite. Secondly, realize that if you are dating a guy that often by putting in time with them without immediately having sex with them, you are building up emotional capital. What I mean by this is when a man has to work to earn your respect and your body, he becomes more vested in you.

It gives him time to connect with you not just physically, but emotionally. But, this is what I will tell you. Well, it can, temporarily, but not for the long-term. Sex is another way of building a connection with someone, but that connection is only strengthened with sex if there is an emotional component to the bond between you and two.

But, what creates an intense sexual experience is knowing someone on a deeper level, having a friendship, and loving who they are holistically beyond the physical interaction. Ha Ha! This is the most Millennial question in the world. It seems so unimportant in the grand scheme of things, but the more and more I saw it being asked on the podcast the more I realize this is important to a lot of people.

One of the many traits I love about women is that when you guys love something whether that be a man, a dog, a job or even a purse you want the whole world to know about it. Initially, though, it was so hard for me to understand why you want everything out there because guys are so different. Our logic goes that if you have an 8-ct. And to me, this is the perfect analogy for how many guys act online. If we have a woman in our life that we care about we could care less whether anyone else knows about it. Robert schooled me on that one. Robert, it is so true what you said about women and social media.

I get that you love your man or woman and may want to share it with the world. But, set some guidelines. Follow the celebrity rule because this is one thing I think celebrities get right. Often, by the time someone famous has posted about their relationship, they have been in a relationship for a period of time so they are giving each other time to get to know another and see if it can truly work. You know those friends you have that you know every detail about their love life because they share their break-ups, make-ups, and every date they go on — annoying right! Balance is Key! Stop relying on social media to measure your relationship or show everyone that you have someone ificant in your life.

I have seen some social media nightmares of someone posting about their relationship, then another person, a crazy ex or whoever starting to follow that person and then trying to figure out things about them by stalking their insta- and the like. Love is a great thing, and it is natural to want to show and share but realize that the real barometer of your relationship is what the two of you share day to day outside of the social media world. Talk to your partner about how you feel and come up with what works for you.

Often the best relationships are shared between the two people in them, void of the outside world of social media. Again, this is one of those questions that is subjective to the individual. When I do answer this question though, I always say at least a year. I say that because in a calendar year you get to see every literal season and I believe before you marry someone you should see them in as many figurative seasons as possible.

You need to see them mad, happy, frustrated, with money and without money. You should see how they handle stress, family, friends, and even temptation. Ah, the marriage question. When you are dating someone, it is more important just to get to know them. So, I would say if you are in a committed relationship that is going well, and depending on your age, experience, etc. But, there can be exceptions to this rule, and again this is related to what two people want or need to make their relationship work. I know some couples who are in long-term relationships in which they may become engaged after a year, never marry, but decide to live together.

I know other couples who may become engaged after six months and decide to marry right away and do ok too. Then there are others who decide they are in a committed relationship but do not formally become engaged to one another or live with each other, but are in a committed relationship.

It is dependent on what works best for the two people in the relationship. However, if marriage is a goal for you and you are with someone who is diametrically opposed to marriage, this is a problem. But, you can make the process easier if you are first in touch with you are, what is important to you, and realize what you need and expect from your ificant other.

Once this happens, your dating experiences will change for the better. Be on the lookout for part 2 of our most commonly asked dating questions. Hopefully, these tips help to make your journey of dating and finding love easier. Originally posted on Thought Catalog.

Questions about relationships and dating

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