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The term for this specific kind of relationship can get confusing because, like these situations themselves, the definition of being friends with benefits often differs depending on who you ask. In general, a friends with benefits situation is much different than a committed relationship. Essentially, a friends with benefits relationship means sex without commitmentemotional connection, or, sometimes, respect for one another. These types of relationships have little to do with friendship. But really, women hold the cards in this FWB relationship.
The evolution of friends with benefits can become a rift between men and women, instead of the wonderful sexual experience. Being friends with benefits can be a good thing if the woman respects herself and sets boundaries. Women are, and always will be, the one inviting the man to enter her. Breaking this down to basic biology, a man still wants to pursue a woman, so if a woman is smart about having a great lover, she will allow him to pursue her.
She will demand the respect of a man and set the boundaries of the sexual experience, expecting him to be a good lover and treat her well; in return, she will also be a good lover, and understand that there are no strings attached. If, during your arrangement, one or both of you begins to develop feelings for each other, it ultimately complicates the situation.
Is it possible to change your FWB arrangement to something more meaningful? Women, on the other hand, usually experience emotions after sex that make them feel connected to their partner, thus complicating things. Denying these emotions can leave women feeling confused, questioning the legitimacy of this casual relationship. Trying to get more out of your FWB may have harsh consequences, especially if you began as friends.
Be sure to think through the situation carefully, and weigh the pros and cons of what is best for you. Those interested in having a friend with benefits, whether male or female, should fully understand their true wants and needs. All of those factors are necessary to protect you from emotional damage. Dawn Michael is an international certified clinical sexologist and relationship expert.
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